The rave scene has a special kind of magic. One that makes everyone feel welcome, free, and able to be completely themselves. It’s more than just dancing the night away to great music; for many, it’s a safe space. As the scene grows, it’s so important that we protect what makes it special. Whether you’re heading to your first rave or have been in the community for years, keeping these unspoken rules of raving in mind makes the experience better for everyone around you, as well as yourself.
Know Your Limits
We’re all here to have fun and soak up everything the rave scene has to offer. But no matter what you’re doing — partying, dancing, or pulling an all-nighter — it’s important to listen to your body. While it’s happened to the best of us, no one wants to miss their favorite set because they went too hard too fast. Drink your water, grab some real food (more than just a chicken tender), and pace yourself. You’ll thank yourself later, and so will your friends.
Respect Personal Space (and Say Excuse Me)
Raves are about freedom and self-expression, but they’re also about respect. Be mindful of the people around you. Dancing is awesome, but it’s a lot less fun if you’re elbowing strangers all night. If you bump into someone, a quick “I’m sorry!” goes a long way. And if you’re moving through a crowd, a nice “excuse me” and a smile makes the difference between good vibes and bad ones. Don’t be the person everyone side-eyes. A little kindness goes a long way in making the experience the best for everyone.
Take Care of Each Other
Between the dancing, walking, heat, and long hours, raving can push your body more than you realize. Always look out for the people around you, even if they’re not in your group. If you see someone who looks like they’re struggling, check in. Offer water, a snack, or a few words of kindness. It takes almost no effort, and you could seriously turn someone’s night around. These kind gestures are all part of what makes this community so special, so don’t forget to do your part to give back.
Leave No Trace
We all love the freedom that comes with raving, but trash kills the vibe fast. Whether it’s cans, wrappers, or anything else, please pick up after yourself. Respect the venue, your fellow ravers, and the people throwing the event. It’s so much more fun to dance in a beautiful, clean space than one filled with trash. Let’s leave the space better than when we found it.
Keep PLURR Alive
If you only take one thing away from these unspoken rules of raving, let it be this: Peace, Love, Unity, Respect, and Responsibility. These values are the key to how we keep the magic of the rave community alive. Trade kandi (especially if you notice someone doesn’t have any), share a fan, compliment a stranger who’s outfit you love. One small act can turn into a core memory for someone else. These moments of connection are what make raving unforgettable. If you’ve ever had someone sprout you or give you a trinket, you know how wonderful that feeling is. Don’t forget to pay it forward.
The rave scene is such a special place and it’s up to all of us to protect what makes it so incredible. If you’re new to the rave scene, welcome to the community! Learning these unspoken rules of raving now will help you feel more comfortable at your first event. And if you’re a rave veteran, what’s one piece of advice you wish someone had shared with you before your first event?